Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Can this be true White men don`t find Black women attractive?


Black dating! Can there be anything more debatable than this? There is always some thing now there. Black men dating Black women, Black men not dating African american women, people today raving about Black guys leaving African american ladies for girls of other races; specially when it’s white girls, African american men calling Black girls sell-outs for dating out. Usually you ponder exactly why people and the media get so addicted about this certain group; and here I am. Passionate just as the rest of them.

The other day, I was scanning this post on African american dating and their interactions and there was a mention of an internet dating analysis which, in accordance with the results, mentioned African american women to be the most "unwanted" ethnic background online. As in based on this research, many White males on the net who date interracially seemed to communicate with Latinas and Asians more than they did contact African american ladies. And the majority of Black men approached white females more too. Someone else also lamented about this. This woman said even when it came to those non-black men who were interested in black dating; the ones that get selected are those who are fair skinned. So this makes me wonder: Do males of other backrounds would rather date the Latinas and Asian girls mainly because their skin is much brighter than that of most African american women? Could it be the color that brings a problem?

There may be some truth to the whole online research. As well, it perhaps merely a coincidence that the men who are signed up on internet dating sites seemed to prefer dating nonblack girls. Checking out success stories on BlackWomenWhiteMenDating.org, you can find many African american women who have found romance on the spot... even the dark ones. Thus does this mean that these ones are more particular? I don`t believe so. They're the ladies who don`t allow what people are saying stand in their way of love.

I think with Black online dating, there will often be a story. Furthermore even if more non-black girls get contacted by most of non-black men, how about the minority? Statistics shouldn`t make African american females lose hope in love because there is a huge pool of guys on the internet who find African american girls so appealing... and some of these men are Bright. Thus it`s all about a personal choice and the reason for these choices might be anything. And with an open mind, it’s merely a matter of time before the two of you meet.